Let’s get your love back in the game.

"We’re disconnected way too often and I hate it."

"No matter what I try my partner is always upset with me."

"I can’t get my partner to respond to me."

I help couples shift from the blame game to exploration so that they listen with more compassion and learn to speak with more self-responsibility and tenderness.

In Emotionally-Focused Couple therapy with me, you learn how to:

• Understand how your partner’s reactions relate to yours

• Shift the focus to your internal experience

• Turn and tell your partner what’s really going on

I help couples get back on the same team.

Secure couples aren’t perfect, but as a team, they can get out of the bad weather and back into their climate of safety.

In therapy with me, we’re shooting for progress, not perfection.

We’re aiming to create a space where you can bring your needs, hurts, and fears to each other and get seen and soothed in response.

If we don’t create a shared way of coping at home where we turn toward each other, rather than on each other, our relationship will not make it.